I’ve had this cartoon since my early working days in cube-land, and I’ve kept it because as far as change goes, this truly sums it up. If you want to live a healthy life, some things may need to change. YOU may need to change. Over the past 25 years, here are some changes I have made – or am working towards making – on my quest for a healthy life.
- Big breakfast, moderate lunch, small dinner. Bodies need less fuel as the day goes on.
- ️Don’t keep unhealthy food in the house. It’s a lot easier to say no once while you’re at the store, than have to fight about it with yourself all week.
- Loosely plan my meals. Breakfast is routine, lunch is fairly routine, dinners are the wild card. Each Sunday I spend 15 minutes talking with my husband about dinners for the week, and Monday is grocery day so it’s great to go there with the plan in mind.
- ️Always have backup dinner/ “chaos meals” on hand. Pasta, olive oil and cooked frozen broccoli always come through in a pinch for us. We also generally have an easy protein like chicken sausage, or cooked frozen chicken breast available to add.
- ️Morning workouts for me. I just do it, so I don’t have to think about it, and if the day gets too busy, at least my workout is done! I get my clothes out the night before, I wake up in time to have coffee and a small snack (lots of research shows women should NOT do fasted workouts) and then it’s GO TIME. I never, ever regret it, even on 27° mornings where it’s dark at the track like this past Tuesday at track. [Note, I run with a group – stay safe, don’t run alone in the dark!]
- ️Constantly assess the snacking, with curiosity, NOT judgment. If I am snacking a lot, that’s a sign I need more substantial meals. If I see more sugar in my snacks, that’s a sign I am tired. I aim for whole, healthy foods as snacks, i.e. bananas, nuts, cottage cheese, Greek yogurt, fruit, beef jerky, veggies with hummus or guacamole, olives, and sometimes cheese. I love all these things.
- Avoid eating after 8 p.m. I can’t always do that, sometimes dinner is late, but this goes back to our bodies needing less fuel as the day goes on.
- ️Limit alcohol. I may have 2-3 drinks per week, but now that I am training that looks like 0-1. As I have gotten older, alcohol affects me more, and in general I feel better not drinking as much, nor as often. Not to say I won’t have days or dinners where I consume more than a couple drinks, but those occasions are rare for me, now.
- ️Limit sugar. I have cut back on sugar a LOT. I don’t drink it in any form, and I aim to only eat it if I will burn it off in a workout within the next hour. (Even that is rare, my pre-workout fuel is usually a banana or half-serving of Grape Nuts.) I do use gels and other quick carbs on my runs/rides if they are over an hour. I do enjoy a small square of 72% dark chocolate most days. I love ice cream and brownies and [very good] cake, and I’ve met only a few cookies I don’t like, but those things truly are special treats that I try to enjoy only rarely. I now find that most cakes and desserts are actually too sweet for me – fruits or flavored Greek yogurt will do the trick if I want something sweet.
- Make little changes you can live with forever. All these things work for me, and I really can live with them forever!
Little by little, a little becomes a lot.
I think it’s important to share that I didn’t make these changes overnight, but as I made them in small parts, they stuck, and that’s what helped me get to and stay at a healthy weight and a place where my body feels good overall. I gradually cut my alcohol consumption back from once a day, to not drinking on Tuesdays, to not drinking every other day, etc. I gradually cut my sugar back from having something sweet every night in the same way. Don’t climb the mountain all at once, make a small change and see if it sticks, then adapt. If you really have to fight a change, that’s a sign that it’s not the right thing to change, or you tried to change too quickly or drastically, so pick something else or take a smaller step towards the same change. Find what works for you. And embrace the changes you make! You’re building a healthier you, enjoy that journey and make it one you never want to end.

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For practical help with making change manageable, I highly recommend the book Atomic Habits by James Clear.









